Related Stories. The only thing that leads to a relationship is caring deeply about each other, and that doesn't have anything to do with when you lose your virginity. If you're thinking of having sex or if you've already started, you'll want to start talking to your doctor about it. It felt like absolutely nothing to me, like someone touching my leg. Updated May 17, I was the one uncomfortable with my virginity, not the person I was sleeping with. Not even close.
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So rather than obsess silently am I doing this right? If you think there is an emotional aspect to the pain, speak to a counsellor or sex therapist to address those issues accordingly. A big part of the equation is making sure your partner is comfortable. Your first time having sex can be the subject of a lot of excitement, but it can also carry feelings of fear or anxiety. Don't be scared, just be honest and it'll be fine. By De Elizabeth.